Would you like to be more charismatic? Would you like to enter a room, and have everyone notice and adore you? But do you believe that only some people can be charismatic, and that you have to be born with it in order to have it?
Fortunately, as it turns out, becoming magnetic and likable is much easier than you might think.
After reading The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism by Olivia Fox Cabane, I discovered that magnetism, like anything else you desire to manifest, comes from aligning yourself with the idea of being charismatic!
The book is excellent and I highly recommend reading it if you want more in-depth information, but if you would like the LOA-based overview of how to manifest more personal magnetism and charisma, read below for more info.
The key to personal magnetism is a combination of three aspects: presence, power, and warmth.
Presence simply means the ability to pay attention to what is going on around you (also known as "mindfulness" to many people into the personal development field).
Do you have the ability to listen fully to what someone else is saying without interrupting? Are you aware of how you feel physically in your environment? What is going on around you?
Having awareness of what is happening in the moment sends a powerful message to the person or people you are communicating to, particularly when you are finding joy and gratitude in the moment. You are sending the vibration of "I am at peace with what is happening around me. I value your perspective", and people will notice that vibration.
Power is the ability to be perceived as someone of importance that others give authority to.
To increase your own personal power, visualize a powerful person you admire and would like to be like.
What does that person say? What do they do? How would they handle your everyday situations?
Now visualize yourself acting in the way. Adjust your posture to be straight, and view yourself as expansive and powerful. When you have the confidence in your own authority, people will treat you as such because you are sending out a vibration of "I am powerful".
Warmth is the final characteristic of charismatic people, and is especially important for balancing out power. Warmth is the feeling of friendliness and compassion.
To increase your warmth, try visualizing warmth filling your eyes as you make eye contact with others. People will physically see the warmth in your eyes and regard you as friendly and nice.
The second trick to increase your warmth is to picture everyone you meet as having a set of angel wings attached them. Picturing everyone as angels allows you to filter them more easily through a positive lens and sends out the vibration of "I like you, you are a good person". People will then respond in kind by living up to your vibrational standards.
And if people don't respond or act kindly, it allows you to more easily see your negative interaction with them as simply a manifestation. They are literally angels sent to trigger something so you can work through it. In the end, it's a win-win either way!
I hope these tips were helpful to you. Please let me know what you think in the comments section below.
And if you are looking to further increase your charisma vibration and personal magnetism, I offer 1:1 coaching sessions to help you clear your limiting beliefs for good and manifest your dream life. Check out more information about my services here.