I am happy to say that I manifested the love of my life into my life about 3 years ago, and we have dated for 2 years and intend to be together for many more.
Want to know how I did it?
Typical Law of Attraction tools such as vision boards, scripting, affirmations, and more can be very helpful in attracting your perfect partner and I would recommend using them if they resonate with you - but I would be lying if I told you that's what I did.
Instead, I developed these 2 mindsets that ultimately shifted my vibration and allowed me to manifest him into my life:
1) I Wasn't Attached to the Idea of a Soulmate
While I absolutely adore my partner and could consider him my "soulmate" in a sense that we get along amazingly, I don't believe in soulmates in the traditional sense that there is one person out there for you - and you better find them or you're going to be forever unhappy and alone. Forever!
Instead, I believed that there are many people that I could have a wondrous relationship with, and I wanted to find one of those people and develop that relationship with him.
Having a mindset of "there are multiple great potential partners" instead of "I have to find the one" helped me a lot because it shifted my vibrational energy from "I NEED to find this person" to "I want to find this person". It was a shift from a scarcity mindset to a mindset of abundance because I knew that I could always find love.
So when I did eventually meet the love of my life at a Star Trek-themed pub crawl (yes, really), I was able to hold the energy of "wow, I really like him" without fear because I knew that if it wasn't meant to be, then I didn't have to worry because I knew that I could always meet someone else who was also great.
2) I Took Initiative to Become the Person I Wanted to Be
Despite not being attached to the idea of a soulmate, it still took me a year to work up the courage to tell him that I liked him and ask him out. I was afraid that I was too stupid and not "good enough" for him, and that he would laugh at me if I told him my feelings.
What allowed me to shift my vibration into the fear of not feeling good enough to into feeling confident enough to go for him is that I took initiative to become the girlfriend and person that I wanted to be when I visualized dating someone like him.
To do this, I made of list of everything that I wanted to do to feel proud and responsible and started working on completing the list. For me, this included getting on top of making doctors and dentists appointments, reviewing my budget and monetary spending, reading interesting and educational books, and making an effort to look my best every day.
When I started doing these things I felt very self-empowered and responsible. This gave me confidence in asking him out because if he rejected me, it would not be because I wasn't good enough. I KNEW that I was good enough and did not need him to validate that for me by dating me.
So when I finally did ask him out, he was quite attracted to that confidence in myself. He knew that I wanted him, but I didn't need him, and he liked that about me so he said yes - and we've been together ever since.
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